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Constipation

If you do not have a problem with constipation, then great.  But anyone who has a problem knows how uncomfortable it is and dealing is ESSENTIAL - both for your sanity/comfort and for your health.  I write this here because it has come to my attention that a number of people are having issues.  I have to work very hard to be regular and happy too.  I also think that Dr. Oz who has been on Oprah is awesome.  Though I have not read his book(s) he was brilliant when doing the poop talks on her show and so I can only assume the books are fantastic!

The purpose here is to help people who are stuck.   Happiness is the goal.  Somethings might be worth a try and then some will say, life is not worth living without that X-food or beverage or whatever.  We must enjoy and find the balance for our unique selves.   Usually the smallest changes can help.  Also, I come from a natural means of healing though in my life I am very much a middle ground thinker.  I am not of the allopathic vs. homeopathic camp.  There are good things to be taken from both schools.  I clearly think we are the sailors of our ships and our health though. 

What I know causes constipation for me and others things that can cause constipation:

-heavy meals - slows digestion

-lack of exercise

-inability to digest bread and dairy and prolonged consumption can even make it worse - good to have a varied diet. Plain active bacteria yogurt is better then milk.  I kid you not and I am getting use to it, but instead of milks, more and more I am adding yogurt and a little water or some kind of milk to my cereals.  I add different things to make it taste good like raisins, cut prunes, seeds, nuts, pineapple, ground flax or hemp seed, etc.).  I am even starting to prefer it and the results, though I had to convince myself it was good for me at first.  Actually I believe early on there was no milk of any kind in the house, so I tried it.  It grew on me….  :) 

-early intake of cow’s milk  (I share with you now, I have been constipated for the majority of my life and this is one of the reasons I chose to study Natural Nutrition.  Also intersting, babies who are breast fed ted to have less digestive issues.) 

-Early inappropriate foods and continued abuse of our guts creates a system that may not be able to function well.  Luckily our bodies are pretty forgiving.  A book I recommend to anyone who has digestive issues is Eating Alive by Dr. Matsen.  It is written in a fun way, but the information is serious and helpful.   MORE IMPORTANT THEN FOOD COMBINING IS CHEWING WELL!  :)

-chocolate, especially when combined with nuts - my weakness…. *sigh*

-constinuous meals and snacks that do not adhere to the principles of food combining - especially large amounts of meat that because all meats have a significant amount of protein and most have a moderate-high fat content, it really slows digestion and when mixed with carbs slows it down even further and may create fermentation in some individuals.  (yeast problems?   Nutrition, nutrition, nutrition….)

-a lot of fluids with meats (diluting hydrochloric acid -HCl) or not enough fluids with high fiber foods.  HCl in our stomach decreases with age.

 -impropper digeston beginning with not enough chewing - food should be a paste BEFORE swallowing, mixing as much saliva as possible. (25-50 times, may seem tedious, but it is your health!) This begins carbohydrate-sugar digestion and this is very important in not welcoming fermentation.

-high fat diet - fats slow down digestion more then carbs (fast) or protein (about 4-6 hours to digest)

-tea and coffee as they act as diuretcs (Though caffeine can also stimulate some people’s digestion. ??? - Still it is more diuretic I think.) 

-many medications (Tylenol, some heart and depression medications, … so many)

 -calcium without magnesium, and iron supplements

-aluminum (yikes - get that out of the diet or certainly reduce! Aluminum foil that comes into contact with food, pots/pans, antipersperants/deodorants,baking powders, bleached flour, processed cheese, antacids, breathing in dust when sanding from aluminum oxide sandpaper, beverages from aluminum cans)

-starchy fruit like bananas and some sources say cherries (though some say the opposite for both).  We are unique. 

-avoid tea with meal or high protein meals. The tea acids can toughen the protein and slow digestion  (I do like my tea….)

-avoid intense exercise, sleeping, bathing or walking around a lot after eat a meal. Right. *rolls eyes* Anyways, these all interfer with the bodies ability to digest propperly because blood is moved away from the middle of the body. Still I think if one is chewing well and not mixing huge amounts of fluid, one should be able to LIVE after eating….lol

-stopping smoking as nicotine can have a laxative effect.

-VARIOUS health problems

 -prolonged sress

-change in hormones

-pregnancy

-traveling

WHAT HELPS….The goal is to speed up digestion. Not decrease the ability of the body to absorb, but to allow the body to DO IT’S JOB! -digest, absorb and elliminate!

 -small meals are better

-limit sweets

-regular and small amounts of water over the course of the day. The standard 6-8 glasses is usually a good start. But water is individual and based on activity, climate, temperature, body weight etc. What is right for one, may not be right for another.

 -not mixing continual high carb and big protein meals or at least keeping the portions smaller. -limit breads if you think you might have problem digesting. NOT forever, but just for a month or so. Add back slowly. I find open faced sandwiches to be easily digested.  Though for awhile I am avoiding wheat.-limit cow’s milk/dairy except low fat quality yogurt (avoid thickeners) - get the real stuff. Ingredients should include milk and bacteria. NOTHING else. Fat free yogurts usually have thickeners. The last thing one needs is cornstarch and caragenum gum plugging you up  - yuck!

-add a good acidophilous supplement to aid in digestion or eat that yogurt

-magnesium rich foods and some take a supplement

-allow at least 3 hours though many sites and sources say 4-6 hours to digest meats before eating sugary foods and fruits (this is why small meals are better - less time to digest)

-eat fruits usually alone or with foods that have good bacteria (yogurt, kefir). Watch portions.  I semi adhere to this, but mostly I just listen to what is working with my body and what is not.

-pineapple and papaya have natural digestive enzymes so they can be eaten with anything. Chew well as with all food.

-low fat diet, but chose quality EFA foods (nuts, seeds, salmon, avocados, hemp seeds, nut butters) -some say grinding your own flaxseeds, though others find it can cause constipation.  (Not enough water maybe?) I am not sure about this, but everyone is certainly different. Still I think other factors cause constipation, not likely flax.  Most sources will say flax HELPS digestion.

-avoid eating fruit after a meal and also desserts. Save for another time? :) This is hard for me.  For those who have slow digestion, excess sugar is just bad news when residing with the slow and perhaps poorly digesting protein.  Irritable?  Yeasty?  Sorry, had to just put it out there. 

 -it is said that hard foods (require a lot of chewing) are better then huge amounts of liquids like shakes and soups. Again, I think variety and aiming for a less watered down day is ideal.  But, individual.

-high scratchy fiber foods can cause irritation/inflammation in the intestines so best not to overdo it. Eat a variety of different kinds of fiber rich foods and psyllium once in awhile can be helpful. Just do not cook with it, YUCK.  I ruined what would have been some good muffins cooking with psyllium… *rolls eyes*

-prunes, potatoes, carrot juice, apples, beets, vitamin C rich foods (tomatoes, potatoes, lemons, strawberries), lentils, chickpeas, portioned whole grains and start smaller (1/2 c)…. many other high fiber foods too.  A varied diet, high in fruits and vegetables with plenty of fiber and one’s appropriate amount of fluid is important.

-de-stress, yoga, pilates, regular exercise (In particular Hatha yoga can help the digestive system.)

-massage stomach, circular and pressing downward as one lays down or stands

I do not agree with Wikepedia’s suggestion that prolonged use of laxatives is okay. In fact it IS NOT! Best to deal with what is the cause of the problem then to continue a life style that is likely the main culprit. Still if one has a healthy life style and is still having problems then it is best to look at ways to deal. For those who are really suffering and have looked at everything, some substances are better then others. But seek medical advice!!! There are physical reasons one could having problems but in our current society of changing nutrition and stress (environmental and mental), it is likely that we can help ourselves with even slight changes in lifestyle.  THAT WITHOUT SAYING, I have had older clients (me as a caregiver) who have needed their laxatives.  Certainly quality of life  is vital. THESE are ideas and suggestions for those who struggle.  There are not so many ‘for sures’.  But good digestion is key in preventing many illnesses.  What can we do today to improve our digestion even a little?  Pick and choose from above and do your own research.   There is no clear idea of what is the ‘right’ amount or frequency for bowel movements (so my doctor said recently), but comfort is essential.  Sometimes the poofiness in the middle is a sign that digestion is a little or a lot poor.   Happy and smart eating and pooping!  ;) If you know something that works in dealing with the problem, please share as you could be helping someone.  Thanks.My comments on this:  Chocolate, dairy and wheat I think has really done a number on me lately (yes, let’s blame the food, not!) and so I am doing a little tweaking of my diet.  Back to nature a little more…whole foods,….75% of the time?  Oh I think I can do that. 

Hope

Just a question…..  “All villages matter !!!”  - Who said this?  Barak Obama or Colin Powell?

Changing, inclusive, beaUtiful America !!!

We are a huge group with interesting ideas here at Buddyslim and though sometimes we disagree, we are truly stronger with each other by our cyber-sides.  People are hurting, so let’s understand that change is difficult for many. 

I feel hope as I turn on the TV.  I have to admit I did not feel for sure that it would happen.  After last election where I just was so confident of the pending results and only was left shocked.  Mouth on the floor….  But there is so much hope and energy in me now, it is almost overwhelming.  I CAN NOT imagine what it is like to be a part of this huge moment in history.  Yet, I do believe that others outside the US feel this way too.  Change and hope and SCREAM !  :)  When I got home it seemed right to snack on something - I was anxious.    BUT I WAS TOO EXCITED WHEN I LEARNED THE NEWS.  Food was forgotten. 

The show last night was a bit disappointing (TSO) and David was perhaps more so.  So we left early to get home before we were stuck in traffic and had to hear the results on the radio.  I quickly turned on the TV.  Katie Couric announced the winner and I felt like I was in a dream.  The only thing that is bringing me to a bit of an ugly reality is the Obama bashing and racism that has been sparked a little more.  I am hoping and praying that everyone can come together and ride this Hope all the way towards Peace. 

Peace to everyone!

What has been working for me

Firstly I will be reading blogs as soon as I can.  And I know there are some ladies I need to go back and read some of your older blogs.  I miss you and I have not forgotten about you.  I have just needed to do some things and refocus and I am one of those people who is really good at multitasking until I am not….lol  So, things are busy this week, but still I can feel myself starting to RELAX.

What has been working for my blues and weight loss?  (And the two do go hand and hand.)

-regular exercise (30 min of cardio/day and I am at 5 consecutive days)

-balanced eating

-reaching out to a friend

-a reduction of stress and stressful situations

-no more exposure to renovating chemicals and materials (paint, drywall and drywall dust, paint thinner, paint stripper, crack filler, tub instalation chemicals and product) - these things do place stress on our bodies and cause a depeletion in vitamins and minerals.  I detest chemicals and so that in itself is added stress.   Could write more about chemicals, BUT NO.  Yah, done with them.

-making sure I have been taking my regular vitamins plus other supplements.  I do not take many supplements as I do see them as medicine.  And St. John’s Wort is seriously helpful for me.  I am not taking the full dose, but do find I am really less anxious and less likely to EE.

-Relaxation and self care (meditation, fall clean up that is not rushed, good comedies, good music, getting a new hair cut today)

-Finding out from any source, that I am not alone in what I am feeling and experiencing

 -I am recording just for 5 days to make sure my nutrition is back on.  It has been all over the place and not a desirable place for weight loss.

-REMEMBERING (this has been tough lately) that a high fiber/phytic acid diet can reduce zinc levels and low zinc levels CAN cause a variety of issues including a decreased immune system and low sex drive (among other issues).  One of my favorite high fiber cereals DOES NOT have added zinc where as others do.  Since adding a little zinc when I was ill and when ever I see that I am having those high fiber foods some what frequently I have been feeling a lot better. ;)  Mostly I am eating zinc rich foods.  I am writing this company to ask them why their cereal does not contain added zinc. One serving contains 8 grams of fiber and eaten semi regularily with a healthy diet also contributing to good, I SAY GOOD *smiles* fiber, could lead to low zinc levels.  It is important to know that the requirement of vitamins and minerals is VERY INDIVIDUAL and the symptomalogy is often a better indicator then blood tests.  My tests showed that everything is fine and yet my health was not fine.  Things are finally better.

And what I can believe is INCREASED SERETONIN.  :) 

Today David and I are going to the Trans Siberian Orchestra and I am feeling like it is Christmas.  Not because of the show, this was David’s pick (I picked the James Blunt concert) but rather it IS ELECTION DAY.   I will enjoy the show!   But this election affects more in this world then Canada’s resent election.  SO as soon as I am home tonight, my eyes will be glued to the TV.  I am so excited!!  Yep, I am a giddy kid.  Let’s go Obama voters!!!  I am cheering on my McCain supporting buddies too especially because you have (a) heart(s) of gold.  Love you all!  *hugs*

Serotonin/The Plan

So I found a fantastic new show (new to me) and I love that it is only 20 some minutes to watch one episode and yet it is nearly 20 minutes of smiling and laughing and this feels so wonderful.   Increased SEROTONIN !!!

The Big Bang Theory is so fantastic!!!  I laughed my behind off.  ;)

It is early to talk about my experience with St. John’s Wort, but I like it.  I do not take it early in the day because I would feel tired all day.  But I take it minimally and I feel comfortable starting out small.  I sleep so well and wake up refreshed.  I am not constipated at all THANK GOODNESS.  What I have found is that I have had a decreased desire to emotionally eat or eat out of boredom.  I feel more content to just be still.  I was feeling a little OCD before, but I feel good.  It is too bad that it interferes with the birth control pill because it could potentially be helpful for people who experience mild to moderate depression.  It is so awesome to have not cried this weekend and truly, that says something.  It was a good weekend and many things have increase my serotonin.

After my fasting blood test yesterday I was so hungry and I ate and ate yesterday.  Seriously I rarely go 14 hours with out eating.  I kind of felt like I might faint, but did not.  YAH.  I am not judging what I ate or how much, but I did eat a lot and I know this because I felt FULL.  Not sure how many  calories or points and I am good with this.   So I am maintaining and my spirits are good.  Though this week I would like to see some progress (any) because I finally feel a little better.  Energy is not optimum, but still it is time.

Love the new tub and more and more baths with candles……..

Whole grains (brown rice, quinoa, etc.), fish, fruits and vegetables, water, good healthy fats (salmon oil, hemp seeds, flax, nuts and seeds) vitamins, treats in moderation and light-moderate exercise (6/7 days).   David and I have decided no eating out until the end of the week.  No sugary desserts and instead we are chosing fruit.  I know this is not really a principle that Intuitive Eating believes in, but my sweetie suggested it (not me who usually says such things), so I think he has been feeling a bit like he wants to see changes for himself.  It will be good for both of us.   I also will be continuing to respect my full feeling……

Have a wonderful week Buddies!  Chamomile tea cheers.  *clink*

I love my doctor/Serotonin

So I had a great visit to the doctor.  I feel like I am the luckiest gal around to have such an excellent doctor who cared about what I have to say.  She knows that I have a passion in helping and healing myself and that I do not wish to rely on drugs if at all possible.  I really like that she does not want to just give meds to solve a problem really quick.  She said that’s not her style.  She and I talked for a good amount of time and I felt like it was well worth both of our time. 

 

After talking she did not think it is a thyroid issue.  Not sure why my temperature is so low?  Do others seem to be low? Is 98.6 no longer normal?   For me 95-97 is normal.  Anyways I forgot to mention it as I am forgetful these days.  I guess I forgot about it because she said the TSH test was normal.   Will be seeing her in the near future though.  She thinks it is a nasty touch of the flu (more symptoms revealed even today and yesterday like dry heaving –YUCK – and sore muscles, still have some nasty sore glands).  She recommends that I increase my serotonin levels because of the depressive state, lack of energy and lack of concentration and fogginess.  Since she knows what I am studying she recommended I research the ways to do this – I love her!   My new allopathic doctor (did I mention I love her?) has recommended taking St. John’s Wort (little shocked) which has been well researched as helping with depression/low serotonin levels.  (Care must be taken when using this herb as there are some serious interactions when combined with certain other prescription meds.  Must do your own research for sure. :)

 

If I have any concerns with my blood sugar levels, she gave me a form to have a blood fasting test done.  I have found lately that I just want sweets, carbs and fruit and that is kind of all I want to eat.  That could either be because there is a blood sugar issue or I just naturally want to raise my serotonin levels.  I have always thought that eating protein would raise these levels (tryptophan into serotonin) but as I read today, sugars raise serotonin levels the quickest.  And the amounts of tryptophan are slight compared to other amino acids in say meats so more tryptophan is not obtained by eating more meat necessarily.  It is simply hard to obtain with all those competing amino acids.  Protein does provide the body with some of the necessary tryptophan to make serotonin, but there are so many ways to make serotonin.  And in this time where there is so much stress (a body that is producing more and more adrenaline), our bodies really require more and more serotonin to keep us level, calm and happy.   She described the state, NOT as depression but rather a tug-o-war between serotonin (happiness) and adrenaline (flight or fight/stress).  We want happiness to win!!!  LOL… it is not really a battle as adrenaline is so very important, but I thought her analogy was cute.

 

I think I have been going a little lower carb lately and then choosing stupidly the wrong carbs when I just feel needy and carb-crazed.  What I have really seen since gaining and then really “dieting” even though I have thought at times it is not, is that DIETING, low carb thinking/eating equals a more depressive, wanting, craving state of mind and body.  So I am thinking more about balance but I am enjoying my portions of carbohydrates and fiber rich fruits.  Just a little protein to help the blood sugars remain balanced and my energy to remain level.  I wanted to lose because I have gained and this is frustrating but it takes time and the right way to achieve healthy results. 

 

But it is not just diet!!!  Stress has been a bit high lately.  Blah, blah, blah….. everyone has more stress for sure.  Life!

 

So according to some study and I have read this elsewhere, salmon and fish oil capsules can alleviate depression (according to a study done by Dr. Nicholas Pericone).  Just thought I would add this in.  The study showed that the group who had a diet that included fish oils and salmon were less depressed then those on the SSRIs like Paxil and Prozac after 8 weeks.  COOL!!!!

 

There are so many great ways to increase our serotonin levels and help with depression.  Most of these are obvious to us.  We really do know usually how to help ourselves.  But when things compound, it is a little difficult to unravel the knots in order to see the answers. 

 

Natural ways to raise low serotonin levels

 

 http://www.ei-resource.org/articles/mental-and-emotional-problem-articles/easy-and-natural-ways-to-raise-low-serotonin-levels/ 

 

The point form I took from the above article:

-eat a high tryptophan meal and then a carb snack 2 hrs later (eating a little different is not different for me as I have had to adjust for my health before)

-carbohydrate rich diet

-eat the right kinds of proteins (rich the amino acid tryptophan)

- go to sleep and wake up at the same time

-get some sun!!! (total 2hrs/day and aim for 30 min. in the AM)

-meditative like activities

-do fun activities that raise your spirit

-Organize environment —  Y ES, YES, OH YES!!!  Soon our place will be organized!  (At least we have a sexy new tub to relax in !!! YAH!  And I am so thankful to our Postal Santa who helped with the new and relaxing environment.  With out Santa we would be showerhead less, or at least we would be oober-showerheadless…… hehe.) 

 

I feel positive about the future.  Again, I am so thankful for my new doctor.  I already feel more sane and less stressed.  I am tired, but all in good time.   I am also thankful for my amazing and supportive buddies here.  *hugs* Have a good one!

 

Cheers to our health.  *clink*

No Doubt Party

Well I have not been consistent with the Intuitive Eating this week as there have been a few high emotions and chaos in our condo-stuff everywhere….

Well mostly it has been due to renovations and some intensity with me not saying what I want.  No I do not want the slightly disgusting granite counter top for the bathroom even though it is right there at Home Depot.  It did not fit and making it fit would be crazy and regretful.  But he wanted to be handy.  And I sure wanted our bathroom ready before mid November, but this is the way it has got to be.  So the custom made tub and sink are a go.  I should have expressed my opinion early, but of course I CAVED (low self esteem) and said ok to the better of the 3 bad choices.  Well it was awful so we wait and David got more of a work out then he had wanted returning the sink.  My bad.  But, all confusion and frustration can come to a beautiful conclusion IF the two minds work, see and feel together….so I found this week.

Weight loss stuff…..No I do not want to put junk food in me unless it is the kind I chose.  Small, delightful, wonderful on occasion and not every day treats.   Wonderful food from the earth most of the time…this is my plan.  I am not trying to over think food too much, yet the dilemma - I WANT CHANGE!

We have gotten pudgy and we both have agreed to live our lives together a little differently.  If this goes well, I shall discuss this more later, I think.  But I am not having the great expectations that I sometimes do have.  We are just going to see how things go.  Communication is sure the key!  Sometimes you need the intensity to get things out in the open.  This week I am thankful for honesty and the perfection of the principle to live in the moment and not in the past.  Have an issue, say things that create tension, BUT BE IN THE BLOODY GREAT MOMENT NOW……  I rocked!  Together, we are rocking!

This week I work on cleaning up my system a bit (mostly whole foods and juice of a lemon each AM and I am thinking green - improving my liver function and getting plenty of vitamin K)

So, I am creating a lifestyle for myself and I am fully aware that things are not going to be all hunky dory every week because things happen..  Now, I try and be a little more respectful of myself and live this life as it was meant to be lived.  Fully.  With beauty.  Respectfully.   Mindfully with Me in mind.  I have gotten into a bit of a multi year funk thinking that I somehow do not deserve to put myself first in my mind.  This nasty mentality has really lowered the meter reading on my confidence.  This is simply not a good way to live.  I want to know what I want and say what I want.  I am woman, here me roar.  Oh yeh, ENERGY!

Other goals too, but that is for me to not share with you here….hehe.  I am just not in that kind of a mood.  ;)  No kissing.  No telling.   A little conservative sometimes, Liberal too on occasion, but I am New Jack City excited everyday!!!  Everyday is a new day to make things memorable and exciting.  I think I like a little world where I can be conscious of what I need for my personal growth and yet still be in a society where people care and take care of each other.

I am really thankful for all my buddies here who have been so wonderful.  I think you all are terrific and I look forward to catching up this weekend.  So tea cheers to Buddyslim and You.  You are beaUtiful and you better not forget it!  Ha!  *fiesty mood*

*hugs*

And to Nikki, I am wearing my lipstick…. hehe

*dances to “It’s My Life” by No Doubt*

PLAN FOR THE WEEK: Lemon water every AM, plenty of water through out the day and be aware of the 10 principles of Intuitive Eating.   Make sure I take my vitamins everyday.

Intuitive Eating…

FIRST: Thank you to my buddies who were there for me at various times.  You are so fantastic !!!

Second: Intuitive Eating -  This is truly the only way for me!  That without saying, I have needed to just keep in mind points because I am either not eating enough or I eat too much later in the day and that DOES NOT work….lol  As we know.  So I am trying to reject the extreme diet mentality, but I am still trying to be aware, of course.

This is no excuse, but someone in my family has a very serious health condition and I did EE (emotionally eat) this week. I was not allowed to call this person because I was not suppose to know, but things are Out now and I can communicate, thank goodness.  Things are going to be tough, but I believe things will be ok.  I have to believe!

Anyways, I knew I was doing it (EE) and I just did it.  Well I was at least with the food when I was doing it.  Half way through what ever I was eating (snacking foods or left overs, I can not actually recall as it was days ago) I do remember that I made myself slow down and that was good.  I have figured it out, if I can actually BE WITH THE FOOD in those moments, it does not seem like the old EE at all.  So this is improvement.  And then this week, I did very well, so all in all a good week with the food.

I have been honoring my hunger for the most part and this is so empowering.   When I was out with my client I had my lunch and she had hers.  I was so satisfied with my sushi I did not feel like I needed another thing.  She told me she bought me one of those cookies from Subway and I felt like I could have a taste and so I took of a piece for the taste, but that was satisfying enough.  I was full.  I respected my fullness!!  Food is not the enemy.  Not even the choice I made to eat a few plus a few more chocolates yesterday was evil or sinful.  It was what it was.  Thank goodness.  I was not good this week and I was not bad.  I just enjoyed life, moved as much as I could and feel content.  Have I lost, I do not know.  But my head is on straight and I am ready to have another great week.

This week, because I have been doing pretty well with the top 6 of the 10 Principles of Intuitive Eating, this week I kind of pay a bit more attention the the last 4.  I have kept them in mind, but I do find it a little consuming, overwhelming and just unnecessary to do it all, so to speak.  I naturally did what I could and now, I can work on those things I struggled a little with and move on to being a little more attentively with the others.  All good here my buddies.

THIS WEEK I learned that I can sit on my butt and not axiously move to the kitchen because I do not like where my head is at.  It can happen.  I also learned and is not diet related, but I learned that this life is so precious and in an instant EVERYTHING can change, so it is good to make each moment count.  It is so important to make ammends and do now what you in the past put off.

10 Principles of Intuitive Eating

1.  Reject the diet mentality - pretty close though I think points are ingrained and helpful for eating enough and then not going over board. It is a tool.

2.  Honor your hunger- no starving, lol, like I have never done this anyways.  When hungry I did just eat something little to tide me over.

3.  Make peace with your food - a little EE, but I feel good with this, but will still be aware.

4.  Challenge the food police - no bad foods.  I started to see carbs as something to avoid just for awhile and then I realized this would only make me stupid, LITERALLY.  So I checked that reality and enjoyed moderately.

5.  Respect your fullness - did VERY well with this.  No discomfort this week.  Though I was pleasantly full after the mole sauce, chicken and beans at Labamba!  Wow… pumpkin seed mole sauce - YUM!

6.  Discover the satisfaction factor - a little of anything that I desired in the moment, savoring slowly, was simply the only way to live.  Pleasure and moderation.  Should have bought better quality chocolates yesterday and had a little less.  But all is good.  No regrets, but rather lessons to learn from.

7.  Honor your feelings without using food - work on to be more consistent

8.  Respect your body - continue……..

9.  Exercise - feel the difference  — keep it up!  I did a lot of walking this week and pilates.  Some pain prevented me from doing certain activities, but that is life.  I did what I could and I am happy about this.  I was not so happy in some of the moments when I felt like I could not do this or that.  But I GOT OVER IT and did not dwell for too long…hehe

10. Honor your health  - my motto that is old, but some how I always must carry it in my pocket like a pebble for those times when it does not seem to be important.

The most important thing for me to remember and this is an Intuitive Eating philosophy, “you will not get a nutrient deficiency or weight gain from one snack, one meal, or one day of eating.  It’s what you eat consistently over time that matters, progress not perfection is what counts.”

Weekend Adventure

I am not going to say I did not eat when I was a little stressed because I did a little, but it was all in portions and I really feel pretty fine.  Amazing actually.  No thinking of any foods as not so good and I really enjoyed everything-food and non-food things.  The stress I should say came from a strange and interesting source (not family) when David and I got a little off track around some park and very much ended up where we should not have been!  Well we were getting some strange looks as we drove down this very wide walking path…. ahhh…. It was CRAZY and my heart was just a racing, but thank the heavens for revealing a much needed escape route…hehe.  My stepfather had left money for sundaes from DQ because he was out working the majority of our visit, but we resisted that.  Actually at the time I felt ill…lol    It just did not appeal.  However when we were at home eventually, I suggested sundaes and so we made little ones.  I felt so famished once we got back and I was able to sit.  It was insane and I got some much desired, adventure?  I never knew this place existed when I lived here, well not really.  So anyways, all through out my sleep that night I would wake myself up giggling at where geocaching had taken us.  I WAS NOT LAUGHING as we experienced everything…HA.  After it was funny.  *big smiles*

I am most proud of my Mom who has lost I do not know how much weight, but she is looking so much better since being diagnosed with high cholesterol and adjusting her diet.  Her numbers have been cut in half and she is so much littler.  She seems to have more energy and is degrees happier.  I am so proud of her.  And I just decided at this moment that I am going to send her a card, like I would send a buddy a booster.  My Mom has not joined the computer age….hehe.  So a good old fashion card will be a nice surprise and motivator for her I think.

I also discovered this really neat meditation spot near a church that I did not know existed (it was made a year after I left).  It was this cool labyrinth that I can not wait to walk through completely.  I really did not have the time then, but for the first time I am looking forward to going back.  Everything just seemed so incredibly positive.  Twas terrific! *smiles*  And it was another goecache near by that took us to this location.  Who knew!?!

Must study now but I will read blogs tomorrow night as tonight we are getting a new toilet and sink.

Love you all and wish you a great day and week!  ;)

I feel alive!

This week I learned so much about myself just by saying from the beginning of the week “I am going to try and not judge food or myself when I eat”.  Now I never thought I did before but of course how could we not when we are trying to lose weight???  I say “oh I so what to have this, but it is not really on my plan.  I mean I want to lose weight, is that a good choice?”  Well foods are not the enemy.  I still believe there is a lot of fake food out there for our potential consumption (Ha!), but nothing is off limits.  All that matters is where my mind is when I am providing my body with energy and nutrition. 

 

And this week, my mind has been here and there and everywhere, but my tools were with me to deal and enjoy.  What I noticed was that my body is not always hungry at the same time.  Feeding my actual hunger was a real good thing but somewhat of a challenge.  No points or calories were recorded.  I did not really journal, but when I was thinking about eating or eating I was aware of the positivity of my hunger and the occasional negativity of my thoughts.  It was wonderful to be an observer of my thoughts and not trapped in them. 

 

I did experience some mini binges (2) but it did not spiral and it did not mean anything.  Sure better choices could be had.  They ended soon after starting because I was THERE with myself.  I was not alone.  My company was plenty.  I did make a correlation to what foods I like to binge on and what I did when I was younger, feeling alone and scared.  It was really strange.  I almost always then and now go for milk products.  I never had them so much early in life but really had a lot in high school as I ballooned.  It was a comfort for some reason.  Anyways, this week I tried to have other foods when I wanted to eat and I felt myself consuming less…. It was a neat experience to NOT WANT ANY MORE…..  Very cool.  My hunger was satisfied.

 

I did feel the stress of not losing weight fast enough, because this process is sure to be so slow as it is not so weight centered.  It is behavior centered with the long term goal being health and achieving MY optimum weight.  This is something I will deal with and accept.  My ideal body weight is unknown.  I have to accept certain genetic factors for sure.  Yesterday it came to me who I am most like.  Sure I am over 200 pounds less then my aunt, but we are very similarly shaped.  We are pears, though I am a little more like an hour glass with my broad shoulders.  The weight will come off as it so wants.  Not really how I wish I could manipulate it.  (Doesn’t work anyways.)   By letting go of the control over food and diet, I noticed that control in other areas of my life picked up, so I was with those thoughts too and soon peace embraced me.   Things are so much better when you relax.  It has been a long time since I have said, I had a great week. Yah!

 

The scale says I gained today but it knows nothing of the fun I had yesterday.  It is not true weight.  We spent 8 hours geocaching yesterday and it was so much fun.  Food was not the focus, though some planning might have been an idea instead of some of the choices we made.   But it was nice to let go.  Could have drank more water too. *notes for next time* 

 

Just to share one experience we had, it seemed that something was lost when we were out and about and maybe I was not freaked out so much as it was not my loss, but I just felt at ease and then it was found.  David and I were in such a good place….hmm, relief?  And there for our fun was a bottle bubbles in the treasure box and so we blew bubbles and felt like kids in the middle of Somewhere Great.  It was priceless. 

 

Goals for my upcoming week: Review the principles of Intuitive Eating and consider some more then others, finish the business section of my course which gives me hives (lol) and have more fun…….  Maybe a loss too.   Have a great week Everyone. *hugs*

listen and do

Yesterday a buddy sent out some nifty advice from “the universe” (thank you Naomi! Must find out where this is from.) and I decided to surrender to it’s wisdom…..

Today is the day!! Do something extraordinary today! Don’t analyze the whys of it…just do it!!

- the Universe

So what did I do? I decided in a instant to confront my self consciousness which does play a really negative role in my life. I do not like revealing my body. So what did I do? I found the first most revealing clothes I own and watered my herbs and flowers on the terrace…..not thinking until after that at least one person is home, the other couple is having their condo renovated and the workers are sometimes out for a break and that from one side neighbors can view, if they really look. Ha! I thought of this after. So this was big and it felt good to just go for it and relax. No thoughts. Just freedom and it was great. I want my body to be the best that it can be, but truly it is just a body!!! Why should I care that it is flawed a little. Perhaps my critical eyes are too harsh when this is just flesh. There is much more to my existence then the physical. I wanted to get out the music and blare You are Beautiful by James Blunt, but I thought maybe another day……… and the next thing I did was, study until my section was complete, wrote an exam and started the next section. This was a GREAT day! I felt so good. I exercised my brain and felt my spirit lift. I also did a variety of exercises but did not concentrate so much on the numbers. I did each movement well and even sweated a bit. But no pushing myself to achieve THAT number. Just pushed and pushed until I felt some burn and then a couple more. Fabulous!

This was my outfit…. ;)

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This would have been tough, but it was spur of the moment and NO THINKING.

Listen and do.

Freedom.

 

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